LIfe Is Not A Competition

It has been a bit of atime that I have published a post on this new website and I have been taking and thinking hard of ways to get 'the word out' to the community that everything is ok. Even life is OK.
We can all rise from from being sad to happy. Well that is what I think.

I think a lot of people face depression when there are drastic life changes that are detrimental to their lives. Or are they? We, as humans all like to be happy, excited and have fun. Then there is no emotional stress. As soon as we are born into this world, we are raised by our elders. parent and/or guardians and the feeling is we are competing to grow up.  By the time we start to think for ourselves, we are competing to be smart, fit and emotionly stress-free.

We are fed and clothed and the w e enter our educational school system to compete against each other for intelligence ranking and  a lot will study hard to reach their career life goals, Some will take it easy and join the workforce, where you compete with job interviews to get jobs. You compete for seats on public transport, you compete in swimming, atheletics and team sports as there  are winners and losers.

So, we compete in sports, education and when we reach the  real world and we are seeking partners, we will seek partners of the opposite sex and compete against others. We will seek marriage, to beat others to share your life and meet your dream come true partner of life. Then, we go shopping and each shop is competing to gain your spending powerness. Then there is competition with  wearing more beautiful clothes then your girlfriends are wearing and so life's competion goes on.

But is it supposed to be a competition. My answer is no. There is no need to prove to others you are better then others. There no need to look better than others. In God's eyes we are all equal.That means we stay equal and that in itself is powerful.

Since I was young I was always cheerful and cracking jokes. That is just how I was and am. I consider myself a 'Happy' person even when people are down. I most say 'Hello' or 'Good Morning' when I was young. Now a days I say, 'Happy Monday' if it Monday, 'Happy Tuesday' if it is Tuesday etc.

The whole world would be a happier place if every day one person makes somone smiles, makes somebody laughs  by saying 'Happy Monday'  to one person. And then the dominoe  affect starts and within one  hour we could all be so happy, even the sad, depressed and peole who have high sense of negativity.

A simple message it is we can carry all over the world, Now it is up to you  to make someone happy and then there no feeling of being competing agianst others.



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Lifeline "The Gift of Hope"

In our community, we are fortunate that there are professional Councillors, that can take calls with the ambition of 'Saving Lives'. When people have certain things building up against themselves in their lives, it can difficult to make important decisions. 

Sometimes there are walls surrounding people, in their brain and like computers, the head goes into over use and they cannot find the escape route to 'Living'.

Then there are the people that are afraid to ask direct families or close friends. They may know what the family or friend would say and it is not the answer they are looking for. Being overtired can be a symptom  for  requiring help to place yourself in a better 'Sense of Natural Well Being'.

So there is the Lifeline volunteers that can take calls and help you recover your life and steer to a better living placed position. So if you know someone that has this kind of stress or lifestyle, direct to Lifeline and make sure they receive the help from them.


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We Need To Inform Every Politician Around Australia of this Blogspot And Its Cause

As we start promoting the awareness of  'A natural sense of well being' or 'a sense of natural well being', it is important that we find ways to be positive ourselves and change people's lives so that there is a brighter future; there is a connection and meaning to them. Meaning the world is there for them, especially for themselves.

We will be looking at an Awareness of  'A sense of Natural well being'  and involve our experts from within our community: doctors, lawyers, grief Councillors, politicians and people that may volunteer and speak up on these issues, in Mount Druitt. 

We want people, to be aware of  services that are available from within our community, before someone decides to take their life. It is injustice to their loved ones, families and friends.

The question, 'Why?', will never be answered as I have discovered and yet we tend to be our own detectives, looking for  evidence that  made that person take that decision in life and give up.

We all know life may be difficult, in many situations and it is when there is a pressure point in the head that it seems the best way out. Is this the right course of action?

So, an email will be sent out to all politicians around Australia, within the next couple of days, so they can  see how important this issue is. We need a band wagon of support and more directional money spent to make these issues stand out and come to happy resolutions.

One Thing That Can Affect People's Awareness Is Children Growing Up.,,,

We can think of many reasons why people, feel sad, let down and feel there is no meaning to life and  sometimes we don't know  that one  person can make a difference.

I suppose, what do I mean, simply we have examples how anyone of us can prevent a loss of any life, through making someone feel better, more important and  bring back self-pride.

Personally, I know I have affected positively to someone in our community that was being in the dark , whilst explaining their life and how her child has really grown up, working hard and leaves her at nights at home, lonely. Then there is the feeling of not making your garden work for you, by clearing it up and planting vegetables and fruits, and I also suggested if not doing much at home, some sort of volunteer work will be good. I said to her their is a meaning to life and life has a positive future.

I was overwhelmed that this person said I have inspired her to change her life and see the brighter sight of life and not think  of potentially being suicidal. Well, that was 'Thank you ' note from God as I have experienced suicide through a very close family member, recently.

So I think, when we talk to people, who seem depressed, sad, see no future and carry burdens, carry the  cross that Jesus has given us and inspire others to be positive in their life, get them to not only see the light in the darkness, let them turn their switch on, so the light shines on them and they see complete positiveness in their lives.

Thank you to that community person, for  hinking that I was helpful - this is my payment required for my volunteer role - a saved life.

Life for Lifeline....

Lifeline For Lifeline 1st November

Since our phones started ringing in 1963, Lifeline has been dedicated to offering support to anyone who needs it, whenever they need it. Tragically, each day we lose eight Australians to suicide –  for us, and I am sure you would agree, that’s eight lives too many! All You've Gotta Do Is Give! That’s why this year we’re launching Lifeline for Lifeline. We’re not asking you to wear a silly hat, bring your pony to work or do a handstand in yoga pants – all you gotta do is give so that together we can save more Australian lives, like Tanya’s.   Tanya struggled for years with depression, anxiety, obsessive behaviours. One night at just 20 years old, feeling completely overwhelmed and having suicidal thoughts – Tanya called Lifeline – it was the most important call she ever made. Tanya was reminded there is always hope. She remembers feeling like her life had a purpose and no matter how dark it seems there is always a reason to live. Someone just like you made sure that night a highly-trained Lifeline staff member was ready and waiting to take Tanya’s call.     Will you be a lifeline for Lifeline by November 1 and help us keep more Australians safe when they need it most? Donating just $26 will fund one potentially life-saving call

Tips From The Mental Health Commission of NSW to Stress Less and Tip to Change Its Name

Here is the first step, towards changing the negative thinking of using the word Mental, where there is 10 tips to Stress Less through the  Stress Sponsored by the Mental Health Commission of NSW and WayAhead Mental Health Association of NSW:

So here you can see ways of relieving yourself on stress as  'a natural sense of well being' is how you cope with stress and deal with it. Stress is dealing with one or many issues and your brain is pretty much in overload.

'Yiu can see how the word 'Mental' for both organisatiions, indicates a negative meaning of the word 'Mental'.