In the early part of lives , our biological parents make decisions for us and that is to bring life to us into this world by the Grace of God, no matter what religion belief you have. The there is the constant instant food and feeding, whilst you grow and adapt to bring a young child learning how to walk talk, run and make sentences. The as we start to make judgement decisions, how do we eat, sleep and keep our selves busy until we reach kindergarten. Then we start making decisions, trying to make friends, skipping lunch at school, learning more about life, educate ourselves - which may be stressful itself.
We compete against our friends, classmates, we are told by our parents how to live life correctly. Then, as we head towards our teens, we tend to go against our parents, little being said of what you are doing or not doing. Everyone is telling us what to do and what happens after High School, but do they know how our mind is and it is sensitive. We still want to make our own decisions.
Life is easy when happy times comes, but for happy times to arrive it take one or more people to make happy times happen. I think in our lives as we grow up there is a lot of us listening and feeding information and a lot of others teaching us as parents/close families and teachers, how to improve our life and live life with neverending studying.
Yet, when it comes to decisions the simple decisions could be difficult and the hard ones could be harder. Every day we make decisions in our life to wake up, have showers, brush teeth, make and have breakfast go to school/work learn or earn income, talk to your parents and close families.
These are simple every day decisions we make - but as we are growming up and we are thinking about what career we want to take up, which partner will we go out with, marry and the decision of having children and raising a family, whilst supporting them are decisions that may not be that easy.
We never know if it is the right thing/decision unless we try it and it should be right based on others thoughts - it should be right based on your own personal feels and understandings. It we stew and hold back these decisions - it prolongs our thoughts of it as a right decision?
Soimetimes our body makes decisions to rest and sleep and that is good as long it is the required sleep, this makes us calm. The most important thing when making deisions is to remain calm even if we think it is wrong. So many times I think my decisions wrong, yet others accept it as right. Then my life is more 'Happy'.😃
Again, you know if it is a right decision and you will know if it is a wrong decision, And that wrong decision can be rethought of and changed to a 'Right' decision. At the end of of the day, if you have lived thoughout the day and survided, you have loved your decisions: life will will be so positive for you. The quicker you make decisons , the easier life goes on a positive note.
The less stress we feel about decisions the more we are feeling of being well.
Yet, when it comes to decisions the simple decisions could be difficult and the hard ones could be harder. Every day we make decisions in our life to wake up, have showers, brush teeth, make and have breakfast go to school/work learn or earn income, talk to your parents and close families.
These are simple every day decisions we make - but as we are growming up and we are thinking about what career we want to take up, which partner will we go out with, marry and the decision of having children and raising a family, whilst supporting them are decisions that may not be that easy.
We never know if it is the right thing/decision unless we try it and it should be right based on others thoughts - it should be right based on your own personal feels and understandings. It we stew and hold back these decisions - it prolongs our thoughts of it as a right decision?
Soimetimes our body makes decisions to rest and sleep and that is good as long it is the required sleep, this makes us calm. The most important thing when making deisions is to remain calm even if we think it is wrong. So many times I think my decisions wrong, yet others accept it as right. Then my life is more 'Happy'.😃
Again, you know if it is a right decision and you will know if it is a wrong decision, And that wrong decision can be rethought of and changed to a 'Right' decision. At the end of of the day, if you have lived thoughout the day and survided, you have loved your decisions: life will will be so positive for you. The quicker you make decisons , the easier life goes on a positive note.
The less stress we feel about decisions the more we are feeling of being well.
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